X-Message-Number: 13011 Date: Tue, 28 Dec 1999 08:17:04 -0800 From: James Bryan Gustafson-Swayze <> Subject: Re: CryoNet #13008 - #13010 References: <> RE: DAF discussions I've only read a few of the arguments here about DAF. From what I have read I find it difficult to "extrapolate" much more than a bunch of wordy individuals that delight in sounding intelligent through the use of 10 dollar words and circular logic. I can further tell that none of you has ever really suffered. I have and still do. I have been a quadriplegic for 20 years. Contrary to common conception I DO have pain, very much of it in fact. I along with the paralysis happen to suffer a bone disease and the dubious distinction of being the worst case of that disease. I am also diabetic. I am alone and impoverished and have little practical prospects for alleviating my loneliness. So, I suffer 3 kinds of pain. The first is familiar to all, your basic pain felt where my nerves still transmit. The second is terribly insidious and is called "Autonomic Hypereflexic Dysreflexia". This causes my blood pressure to rise rapidly and dangerously in response to pain stimulus located in areas where my nerves no longer transmit. There is much anguish to go along with this kind of pain as I am in danger each and every day of suffering a stroke from the heightened blood pressure which for some odd reason targets especially the brain causing unbelievable headaches. These headaches increase in magnitude with each and every heart beat pushing me closer and closer with each pulse to possible stroke, loss of control or plain oblivion. The third type of pain is mental. I mentioned the loneliness. Imagine if you will that every time you see an attractive woman you must swallow your pride and forget any aspirations because you, to her, are invisible. Imagine not having an orgasm whether self induced or with the congress of said attractive woman for more than 20 years and having no hope of ever having one again in ones lifetime. Imagine being inventive and intelligent but lacking the use of ones hands to bring any brilliant ideas to fruition. I could go on and on but I think I have made my point. I doubt any of you really knows suffering as I know suffering, pain as I know pain. Such suffering and pain that could cause one to seek relief from oblivion. I consider it every day. So far I have chosen to endure. However, that could change. I would rather be transported and have at least a small chance of realizing the life I lost. For I am not living now I am only existing. I have for brief periods experienced nonexistence. I was coded when my heart stopped once. It was total unconsciousness. I know this because I have no memory of how it felt, only the loss of time. I know this is how death would be. No consciousness....no pain! It's quite simple really and no need for circular syllogistic acrobatics. Like I said I would rather be transported, perhaps even downloaded--provided it meant some hope of feeling something again. However, I must face reality. I haven't the funds to pay for cryonics. I will keep trying as long as I can to produce them but there may come a day when I must decide an awful choice. I must make my choice while I still have the capacity to do so. I am 41 years old and the quadriplegia, the bone disease and the diabetes are eating away at me. One day I may not be able to, for myself, end my pain in the face of the reality of no chance for transportation. Shouldn't I deserve if not in life at least in death, some small bit of dignity? What would you do? James Swayze Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=13011