X-Message-Number: 14336 From: Date: Fri, 18 Aug 2000 06:31:20 EDT Subject: From a Deathist Lurker Girl In a message dated 8/18/2000 5:04:30 AM Eastern Daylight Time, Paul Wakfer writes: << However before I detail that, I wish to apologize to any CryoNet lurkers and relative newcomers who might have been offended by some of my language or criticisms which were directed at, and meant for the long-time CryoNet posters and readers. If anyone wishes to know more about the details of the basis for my complaints, criticisms and/or praise, I ask that you write to me privately. >> Hello, Paul As a longtime lurker with only a tangential interest in cryonics (how I came to be subbed to this list is a long and weird story) I have nevertheless read the debates of the last few weeks with interest. In order to bring myself more "up to speed" regarding the history of your differences with other major players in the cryonics field, I have also gone back to the cryonet archives and read some other things posted on cryonics-related websites. My conclusion? In any group of people, especially larger groups of intelligent people who have passionate feelings toward the common cause they support, separate factions are bound to develop. I have seen this occur in every organization in which I have ever been involved. There is nothing intrinsically bad about this. What is bad is when the various factions turn valuable time and energy from the cause they mutually support and focus primarily on their differences, each attempting to vilify the other and show newcomers why they are "right" while the other side is "wrong." Not having been around for the actual happenings, and only reading about things after the fact, I have to admit that you've swayed me to your way of thinking, Paul. Not that I believe your way of approaching cryonics-related research is "righter" than theirs, but that I have been impressed by your calm, well-reasoned responses to some of the hysterical ad hominem that has been hurled at you. I despise cheap shots and gratuitous infighting, and you have handled the insults flung at you with the utmost grace. A few more comments, then back to lurk mode: P.S. to Paul: despite the fact that "mental masturbation" won't get you any closer to immortality...hey, I kinda like it. I like to see big brains play with themselves... call me a mental voyeur ;-) To the person who subscribed me to this list: If you are thinking about writing to me and asking how I've been, don't. Go directly to...uhhh...shall we say... *cryostasis*. Do not pass "GO." Do not collect $200. To Kennita: Since I am planning to irreversibly deanimate at some point, I will need someone to represent me in the future. Someone very cool (no pun intended ;-)) Someone cool and... female. I nominate you to represent the Deathist Lurker Girls in the distant future. I would seriously be honored if you would. To Doug: I think you're the one who always posts all the medical news and stuff... Thank you, thank you, thank you!! Another big reason I like this list!! To all of you: You are very brave people. I enjoy reading about your hopes, dreams, ambitions, failures, and triumphs. I wish you all the best, and most of all, the attainment of life extension that you are striving for. And, thanks for allowing me to hang around :) Serra Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=14336