X-Message-Number: 15841 From: "Mark Plus" <> Subject: "A Hazard of Good Fortunes" Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2001 20:10:20 -0800 From: http://www.nytimes.com/2001/03/11/magazine/11WWLN.html?pagewanted=all March 11, 2001 A Hazard of Good Fortunes by Gregg Easterbrook Ten years ago America won the cold war, and now, with a significant tax cut very likely, is about to declare victory on the domestic front too; things are well enough under control that government can reduce its claim on our income, giving most people more money to spend. And why not declare victory? By almost every measure, life in the United States today is the best it has ever been: ever-rising living standards; rising life expectancy and falling rates of disease; low unemployment; declining rates of crime, pollution and poverty; low risk of war; unlimited supplies of just about everything; personal freedom never greater. This is America's Golden Age. So if things are so great, why don't we seem pleased? Poll data show that the percentage of Americans who describe themselves as "happy" has not increased since the 1950's. Incidence of unipolar depression -- the disorder in which a person always feels bad -- has increased tenfold in the United States in recent decades, and the causes don't appear biological. Contemporary American public discourse consists almost exclusively of complaints, often at near-hysteria pitch. Formula No. 1A of modern movies and books is that society is going to hell in a handbasket, even as almost everything -- including the fortunes of the people making the movies and writing the books -- continues to improve. Standard American conversation today often boils down to: bitch, bitch, bitch. There's too much traffic; the cable bill went up; the service isn't perfect; etc., etc. People are even complaining about the coming tax cut -- complaining about getting a tax cut. In the last few days, how many times have you heard someone express gratitude or happiness, versus complain? How many times have you expressed gratitude or happiness, versus complaining? Recently, with my kids at a Burger King, I found myself mumbling under my breath about the wait for our order. Fast food takes too long, I complained. It may seem incredible that America has constructed a society in which people can think such a thought, but admit it, you've entertained this gripe, too, haven't you? Circumstances just keep getting better, and Americans just keep complaining. Future historians may someday categorize the progression of society into agricultural age, manufacturing age, grousing age. Psychological research shows that people rapidly adjust their perceptions of life circumstances. As standards rise, most men and women almost immediately begin taking gains for granted -- what were yesterday's luxuries really do become today's necessities. Already a 2,230-square-foot, 2.5-bath home (the median figures for new homes built last year) doesn't seem like a reward for which we should be appreciative but rather just the launching pad for the next level of middle-class acquisition angst. Those big new houses start feeling cramped as we fill them up with stuff, and once a certain critical mass is achieved, something always breaks, creating perpetual irritation. Excess materialism can also cause people to generate their own complaints, even on a big budget. One of the few trend lines about contemporary American life that isn't favorable is the national savings rate. Spending every dollar rather than saving a few embeds anxiety in daily life, a point raised by Juliet Schor, a Harvard economist. Meanwhile it is the movement in living standards, not the standards themselves, to which most people are keenly attuned. As David Myers, a social scientist, wrote in 1999 in "The Pursuit of Happiness," "Better than a high income is a rising income," since it is the rising rather than the money that engenders the sense of gain. And though real income for the typical American has almost tripled in the postwar period, the rate of rise has slowed in recent years, except for the top quintile. Thus it's common to hear people assert they are "worse off than their parents were" when objectively they are much better off, just not gaining as rapidly as parents once did, relative to their parents' more modest starting position. Skewed perceptions also reveal themselves in the widespread conviction that Americans are time-stressed in a historically unprecedented way. This may be true for some individuals, especially in two-income families with small children, but for society as a whole, the time-bind notion is an urban myth. As John Robinson of the University of Maryland and Geoffrey Godbey of Penn State University have demonstrated, today typical Americans have more leisure time than at any point in the nation's history. As a nation we've gained almost one extra hour of leisure per person per day since the early 1960's, and this figure holds even for working mothers. So why doesn't America seem appreciative of its state? To a certain extent, grumbling amid plenty is simply human nature: as Jacques Brel sang, "Sons of the rich, sons of the saint/where is the child without complaint?" Complaining also serves as a psychological self-defense mechanism. Many fear that the good times cannot continue, and subconsciously inoculate themselves against bad luck by refusing to feel too pleased. Plus we all know that complacency leads directly to disaster. And if there is one thing stressed-out, hardworking, complaining Americans surely are not, it is complacent. The American character may be so fundamentally entwined with striving that we will grouse no matter how much better circumstances get. There's reason to be concerned about this auto-complaint syndrome, of course. If we're dissatisfied and in many cases even feel sorry for ourselves when times are good, what might happen if trends reverse and hardship lies ahead? Imagine if Americans really had something to complain about. Gregg Easterbrook, a senior editor at The New Republic, is working on a book about whether life is getting better. _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=15841