X-Message-Number: 16534 Date: Thu, 14 Jun 2001 01:47:05 -0400 From: Deathist Lurker Girl <> Subject: Marketing cryonics Scott Badger wrote: My recent experience has led me to suspect that one of several reasons why cryonics is so hard to market is because many people aren't sifficiently scared of death. We as a society have divorced ourselves from the horror of death by having the sick and elderly removed from our homes and placed into institutions where we pay others to care for them and watch them die. Death has become too abstract to many of us. That makes it easier to deny the terror of its eventuality. Now what cryonics really needs is a snappy theme song. Maybe we could borrow a popular tune. How about this one? [snip "Deathbusters" lyrics and remainder of Scott's message] There's no denying that a snappy tune might help. Human beings are known to be emotionally stirred more by meaningful lyrics set to music than by the bare words themselves. However, a major stumbling block to me is the seeming lack of a warm, welcoming community of cryonicists who seem genuinely interested in "evangelizing" cryonics, *yet at the same time* are respectful of the rights of others to decline their chance at immortality. The overall approach being something like, "You're fine just the way you are, and we accept your right to make your own choices, but we have something we think is very desirable, and we'd like to tell you more about it..." I would be more inclined to want to support or join a group whose members: - Had compassion and nonviolence among their chief goals (not exemplified by threats of being willing to "fight" for a spot in a lifeboat- because if that's the way we're going to behave, why not just set the time machine in reverse and be a couple of Neanderthals scrapping over an animal carcass? I mean, what would be the difference?) - Respected people for who they were, and not for their potential to be "molded," by whatever means, into another person's ideal - Didn't take themselves so terribly seriously, and were able to laugh at themselves as well as "kid around" affectionately with others - Granted full rights of autonomy to other human beings without the slightest threat of their being discriminated against, coerced, or manipulated based on differences of philosophy or opinion - Cooperated with each other instead of being locked in spiteful and wasteful competition - Minimized egotism, gratefully recognized each person's contribution to the whole, and were more interested in the overall advancement of *humankind* than focused on "what's in it for me." And, yeah, love... hearts and flowers...because I'm cheesy like that. When I think of a "community," I think of people *caring* about one another. That doesn't mean you never disagree, but it does mean that you value your connection with your peers enough that you are not easily estranged by disagreements. It also means that you're not nasty to one another for no good reason. And if you are, you apologize. Okay, before this starts sounding any more like "All I Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten" (or whatever the title of that book was), I'm going to bid y'all a fond goodnight. DLG Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=16534