X-Message-Number: 28490 From: Date: Sun, 24 Sep 2006 10:46:59 EDT Subject: Francois post, rant and report on Catholic church In a message dated 9/24/2006 5:00:47 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, writes: Message #28484 Date: Sat, 23 Sep 2006 13:17:53 -0400 From: Francois <> Subject: On the difficulties to sell cryonics. The Francois post today was a highly educated, anthropologically astute analysis of the challenges of "selling cryonics." This weekend I have attended no less than THREE (count them, THREE) Catholic functions. The reason was that our good friends (wife Dawn calls them her adopted parents) had their 50th wedding celebration. Along with the 50th wedding celebration, ironically, they also had a memorial service for their 42 year old son who died of diabetes, and poor self care relating to diabetes. So, I had more than ample opportunity to see the workings of the Catholic Church. These people have had literally thousands of years to figure out the most effective means of mass marketing (pun intended). While the invitation was billed as a "50th Wedding Anniversary Celebration" and the a "Memorial Service", all events followed a similar pattern. They were basically Catholic catechism and indoctrination sessions, surrounded by truly beautiful music in an exquisitely tasteful and religious icon filled setting. So, we basically had a Catholic Mass, a bit customized for the anniversary or memorial occasion. Thus, the pun "Mass Marketing." And, yes, Francois, the bottom line "text" had to do with our racial anticipation and consequent worries about death. Paul, the 42 year rather sweet man whose diabetes and resultant bad self care resulted in his death, was said to be "in a better place, because he had accepted the mystery of faith." Lots of nonsense about the blood of Jesus taking away the sins of the world. And then ALL services have a ritual in which we "Eat the flesh of Christ," a symbolic ritual in which the priest feeds a wafer to each Catholic there while pronouncing this IS THE "Body of Christ." (I thought about getting in line to see what the body of christ tasted like, but I thought better of it!) There is also a HUGE infrastructure of responsive readings, chants that are led by the chief neocheater...er...excuse me, head priest, agreement that the Bible is the "word of the Lord" and various other effective, indeed rather comforting rituals. And the infrastructure of the churches themselves is stunning. Spacious, artistic, comfortable, with good public address systems, custom designed to make the experience comfortable, comforting, and warm. Of course, the big factor is the amazing SOCIAL infrastructure. Most of our square dance friends are Catholic, and the outpouring of friendship, emotional support, help with event planning, and caring and support of the celebrants is genuine, in my opinion. Each service seemed LONG...good brainwashing takes some time...I would guess 1.5 to 2 hours. Although I promise it seemed MUCH longer to me! LOL! In the narthex of the church I picked up some of the literature. There I learned in an ironically titled piece, "Saving Lives" about the important work this group was doing to outlaw gay marriages and eliminate abortion options. Of course, these are also the folks who powerfully and effectively lobby to criminalize stem cell research. After all, we know a blastocyst of eight cells is MUCH more important in God's eyes than a fully formed human who is in pain or dying because of the numerous diseases potentially fixable with stem cell research. And why bother with cryonics if death is a good thing? If we all have "The sure and certain hope of resurrection with Christ" after death, what do we need with this old and broken body anyway? There were numerous memes (oops, didn't mean to bring up a controversial word!) which were antithetical to science, rationalism, and a critical thinking epistomology. You are supposed to take these fairy tales on FAITH. The more faithful you are, the less questioning of details, the better person you are. My wife could not understand...still does not...WHY the whole experience bothered me so much. She says she enjoys the singing, the rituals, and believes in a God who cares. Needless to say, the resultant discussion with my wife was less than satisfactory. We simply have to stay away from these discussions...unfortunate because these kind of values discussions are important. As I write this, she is saying something about "Don't let your experience this weekend put you in a bad mood and have you post a ranting post about the Catholic church." But I am doing this anyway. (Except for the bad mood part.) Anyway, responsibilties call...there is much more I would like to do to both vent about my annoyance with religion in general and the Catholic church in particular...and also to see exactly HOW rational and secular individuals can substitute celebration rituals that have meaning and provide some substitute for the clearly necessary place we have in our hearts for such things. Kind thoughts to all, even and especially my many religious and Catholic friends... Rudi Content-Type: text/html; charset="US-ASCII" [ AUTOMATICALLY SKIPPING HTML ENCODING! ] Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=28490