X-Message-Number: 31243 Date: Mon, 08 Dec 2008 13:39:41 -0700 From: Kitty Antonik Wakfer <> Subject: Re: My Cryonics e-newsletter came through formatted well, no ... References: <> On 12/05/2008 03:00 AM, CryoNet wrote: > > Message #31232 > From: "Keith F. Lynch" <> > Subject: Re: My Cryonics e-newsletter came through formatted well, no ... > Date: Thu, 4 Dec 2008 13:10:07 -0500 (EST) > > wrote: > >> Content was reasonably informative, only occasionally populist, and >> clearly did not do a disservice to the field of cryonics. You may >> disagree with this. And, you are welcome to. >> > > Spam is primarily about consent, not content. Sending unsolicited > bulk email, especially to people who have made very clear that they > don't want it, is extremely rude, [snip] > Along this point of sending unsolicited messages via email (also postal mail, telephone, in person or any mechanism that will effect an unavoidable time usage by the receiver), I suggest that others look at the Natural Social Contract (NSC) definition of Connection Harm, a special case of Responsible Harm. (http://selfsip.org/solutions/NSC.html#responsible_harm ) Reading the annotation for this definition (click on heading "Responsible Harm") - specifically section 6) - will provide more understanding for the inclusion of UnChosen diversion of one's attention (interruption) in this Contract, one of the two joint methods proposed for social order based on the principles of Social Meta-Needs (http://selfsip.org/fundamentals/socialmetaneeds.html ). Reading and following the Special Note at the top of the NSC will provide a reader with the opportunity to gain the most benefit from reading that document. [snip] >> I liked my email newsletter. And if I didn't, I have a delete key. >> > > "Just press delete" is another mantra of spammers. In an ideal world, > spammers would be sentenced to jail with a terminal, and told to "just > press delete" once for every spam they ever sent. Twice a day they'd > get a message that their meal was ready, and if they deleted *that* > message, they'd skip that meal, so they'd better pay attention, as > everyone else who uses email has to. Many spammers would be unable > to complete this sentence in a natural lifetime. > While it is amusing to imagine a spammer in this situation, punishment does nothing to restitute any person who has been harmed by the spammer's interruptions - by the loss of time that might otherwise have been used to increase to hir lifetime happiness. In a proper society, those who have been physically harmed (and a forced loss of time is definitely physical) would be owed restitution by the violator, of the type and amount that only each individual harmed can determine, with all others deciding through Social Preferencing (the other, and more universal, method for assuring social order in a proper society) whether what is required of the violator (spammer in this case) is acceptable to each of them. (See http://selfsip.org/focus/preferencing.html and also http://selfsip.org/solutions/Social_Preferencing.html ) **Kitty Antonik Wakfer MoreLife for the rational - http://morelife.org Reality based tools for more life in quantity and quality Self-Sovereign Individual Project - http://selfsip.org Self-sovereignty, rational pursuit of optimal lifetime happiness, individual responsibility, social preferencing & social contracting Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=31243